Superhero Play for Kids of All Abilities

My two boys love superheroes. In fact, the past three Halloween’s, my 5 and 2 1/2 year old have been Superman, Spiderman, another Spiderman, Batman and Robin. So there is no doubt why the “superhero” theme was fresh on my mind for the last marketing project I was working on. It was not until recently that I discovered on one of my new favorite parenting/teaching blogs, Teacher Tom, that there was a lot of talk in the parenting and teaching communities about superhero play. I was surprised to learn that some schools actually ban it. It seems to me that when managed, superhero play teaches about values, respect, empathy and safety – while being fun. Here are some ideas on how to make it a learning experience, as well as some adaptations for your children with special needs. [Read more...]

Confession: I let other Mom’s cook for my family

Fiesta NightGuest Confession from Jackie Kaufenberg: As a mom who works full-time out of the home and has three kids ages four and younger, I do not have much free time. At times I would find myself getting home from work, instantly having kids asking me for snacks or throwing tantrums on the kitchen floor, all while I had no idea what I would make for dinner that night. I have always been a a bit of a foodie, but with kids, a foodie can suddenly find themselves emerged into the easy world of hamburger helper and macaroni and cheese.

About a year and a half ago, a friend had forwarded me a video that was on a local news station, about a group of mom’s who had started a local cooking club. The idea seemed brilliant: 8 moms, one evening a month, cooking 10 meals for each family, all that can be frozen and cooked as needed during the month. The idea of this really excited me because it seemed like such a time saver. I want to provide healthy meals for my family, but without losing the family time to cooking or eating dinner at 7:30 at night. Luckily, Cindy at Tidy Tightwads who started the cooking club on the news video, was also able to help me start a cooking club.

Now my freezer is stocked with delicious meals, side dishes, and breads. I have started new friendships and reconnected with old friends through cooking club. I have a little more time with my family and less time worrying about what I am going to whip up for dinner. I have made recipes that I would not have made on my own, and have even learned a thing or two about cooking. As a bonus, we have developed a great relationship with our local grocer, who gathers the groceries on our list each month, and gives us a discount off the total, saving us some money too. It is a relief to know that a delicious meal is only a thaw away. So, even though a different mom may have cooked our meal of the evening, we enjoy every bite.

Confession: I nearly gave birth on the way to the hospital-twice!

StopGuest Confession by Jackie: I am a proud new mama to a beautiful baby girl born in September. She has two big brothers to keep up with.

CJ was almost born on the way to the hospital, which is 30 minutes away from our house. It was a stressful drive but something we had been through before. With our second baby, I will admit, it was mostly my stubbornness that got us into the trouble. I was afraid of driving all the way to the hospital, just to be sent home, so I just continued to deal with the contractions at home, then my water broke and the baby was ready to be born – NOW.

With our third baby, I was extra cautious to not put my husband and myself through the stress of driving 80 MPH while in intense labor again. So, long story short, I went to the doctor early on when my contractions started. I was sent home, only to have my water break five minutes after walking into my living room. Both times, I had to use the lamaze “holding” techniques that I did not bother practicing (seriously, who needs those?). Let’s just say, true road rage is needing to give birth to a baby now, but you have to wait for the &#@$* red light to turn and the &#@$* four cars in front of you to move it and the &#@$* pedestrians to get the hell out of the way!

The end results were perfect, although I still am not happy with the doctor that sent me home.

Oh, and baby #1? My water broke in a church, about an hour before a wedding that my husband and I were suppose to be in. At least I was the best dressed mama that time.

Guest author Jackie Kaufenberg is one of the most motivated moms I have had the pleasure of working with in a variety of ways. Jackie is a Marketing Manager for Altimate Medical, Inc., mommy of two little boys and a new baby girl. She’s a mommy blogger at Inspiration of the Moon.

Confession: I have a cleaning lady

zindex - clean up your cssFor the past couple years, I have had a cleaning lady come to my house for 3 hours, once a month. It is amazing what she gets done during that time. Let’s just say she is incredibly efficient and her friends call her “Tornado”. For less then $40 a month, I get the satisfaction of a sparkly house, if even just for one evening. Floors are scrubbed, bathrooms sparkly, dust wiped away. Ah, it is a slice of heaven. What she gets done in 3 hours would take me a whole weekend, cleaning around kids and trying to give them attention at the same time.

But why do I feel like I need to hide it from my friends, neighbors, whoever? Why does society make it acceptable for a woman to spend well over $40 monthly on clothes, beauty treatments, purses, and so on, but if I choose to put that money towards hiring someone to do clean my home I get a “must be nice” guilt trip? No, I do not have cash to burn in my pocket. I am quite frugal and love garage sales and hand-me-downs. I work full time and have two little boys and another on the way. Paying for a “professional” to come clean my house for 3 hours a month gives me more time with my family and I am all for that.

So I will sacrifice the expensive handbags and manicures for more time with my family (and not feel guilty about it!).

Confession: I let my son pee outside in public

Three Oaks in the park around the Palace of PszczynaLast week I took my 4 year old to the zoo. After a busy morning of looking at giraffes, lions, and gorillas (his favorite), we headed back to the bus to get lunch. I grabbed the cooler and we walked over to a picnic park area that was packed with people. He picked out a table to eat at and I got all of our lunch out of the cooler and ready to eat. He then told me that he had to go potty. I looked around and saw a bathroom/shelter in the distance. He then said, “Mom, I will just pee in the grass….” I told him no and then thought again. I really did not want to pack up all of our lunch and risk an accident on the way to the potty, so I reluctantly gave him the go ahead….He was about to pull down his trunks and take care of business, when I reminded him to be quick and go by the tree instead of just in the grass. He was happy to oblige and ran over to a tree about 15 feet away.Admittedly, I was embarrassed and entertained at the same time. While I acted like I did not see what he was doing, he dropped his drawers all the way down to his ankles and was done in no time. Even though there were about 200 people spread throughout the park and picnic area, I looked around and as far as I could tell, no one even noticed.

Afterward, I drilled him a bit about where he learned how to pee outside. He eventually admitted to me that his “grandpa pees outside all the time”. I felt a little guilty about not stopping him, but reminded myself that he is a little boy, loosen up a bit, and enjoy the moment. As long he stays away from “indecent exposure” as he gets older, I think no harm was done… And a funny memory was created.